Resources to Help Your Marriage

Shawn and I have been married for 21 years. I’m not sure how we made it through the early years other than by the grace of God. Over time these are the resources that we and others we know have found very helpful to growing their relationship.

If you are struggling in your marriage, we want to pray for you. We’ve been there. We’ve dealt with some incredibly hard things together and both of us refer to an early part of our marriage as literally 7 years in hell. It is truly by the grace of God and our faith in Jesus that we even stood a chance to get past those hard days to where we are now. You can reach us at or you can use the comment form at the bottom of this page.

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Mort Fertel from Marriage Max’s, 7 Secrets to Fixing Your Marriage. Mort has programs to help if you are both wanting help as well as, for if you are the only one willing to try to save your marriage. He has a very high success rate in helping struggling, broken marriages to come back strong.

Learn Couple’s Massage

We have found an awesome site for learning couples massage that will make your partner melt, that is “PG” and highly recommended for connecting with your partner. Melt:Massage for couples and don’t forget to pick up massage oil: Melt Sensual Massage Oil + Free Couples Massage Tutorials.

Books/Videos Resources for your Marriage






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Debt is a leading cause of divorce in North America. Getting your finances in order and getting onto the same page is important.

Dave Ramsey’s Total Money Makeover is a #1 Best Seller. If you haven’t heard of Dave Ramsey yet, he is a financial guru who helps families get out of debt with his debt snowball method. He holds nothing back and will tell you how it is.

Spiritual Warfare: Resources for Christian Marriage

What are we filling our minds with? What thoughts do you dwell on? Do you allow the enemy to play tricks on your mind or like me, turn you into an accuser. Learning to take your thoughts captive is one of the biggest, most important battles in gaining victory over your life and your marriage. We need to be covering our spouse and children in prayer daily. Lifting our needs up to God and allowing Him to work through the chaos and mess and give us back something beautiful.


Book Cover Don't let the devil Defeat youDon’t let the Devil Defeat You – Shawn Findlay Is written to expose the tactics of the enemy against you and your family and provide actionable steps you can take using the authority Christ has given you to win the spiritual battle daily. Your mind is used to know and love God and this makes it target #1 for the devil. You are not defenseless, I want to provide you with the knowledge and tools to successfully fight back, take your thoughts captive and live an abundant life in Christ.



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